{"id":1148,"date":"2015-10-17T00:01:32","date_gmt":"2015-10-16T23:01:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.josefknoflicek.cz\/?p=1148"},"modified":"2023-04-07T22:58:47","modified_gmt":"2023-04-07T21:58:47","slug":"zamysleni-na-kazdy-den-slameny-vdovec","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.josefknoflicek.cz\/?p=1148","title":{"rendered":"Zamy\u0161len\u00ed na ka\u017ed\u00fd den. Slam\u011bn\u00fd vdovec."},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.josefknoflicek.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/images-13.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\" size-full wp-image-1157 alignright\" src=\"http:\/\/www.josefknoflicek.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/images-13.jpg\" alt=\"images (13)\" width=\"188\" height=\"269\" \/><\/a>P\u0159ed t\u00fddnem jsem odj\u00ed\u017ed\u011bl z Hav\u00ed\u0159ova dom\u016f do Pezinku. V Hav\u00ed\u0159ov\u011b jsem na t\u00fdden zanechal St\u00e1\u0148u. Ve chv\u00edli, kdy jsem odch\u00e1zel, n\u011bkdo prohodil, \u017ee jsem te\u010f slam\u011bn\u00fd vdovec.<br \/>\nPojem slam\u011bn\u00e9ho vdovce m\u00e1m ( a asi nejen j\u00e1) spojen\u00fd s Milo\u0161em Kopeck\u00fdm, kter\u00fd n\u011bkolikr\u00e1t takovou\u00a0roli hr\u00e1l.\u00a0 Slam\u011bn\u00fd vdovec v jeho pojet\u00ed byl p\u011bkn\u011b velk\u00fd z\u00e1letn\u00edk a h\u00fd\u0159il.\u00a0Ale i\u00a0obecn\u011b, kdy\u017e\u00a0 n\u011bkomu \u0159\u00edk\u00e1me: &#8222;Te\u010f je z tebe slam\u011bn\u00fd vdovec&#8220;\u00a0 je to u n\u00e1s spojeno s dobou &#8222;svobody&#8220;, u\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed si v\u0161eho, co by si nedovolil, pokud by \u017eena byla doma. Jin\u00fdmi slovy te\u010f si m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 d\u011blat, co chce\u0161. V\u00edm, \u017ee mnoz\u00ed to tak neberou, ale vid\u011bl jsem mnoho slam\u011bn\u00fdch vdovc\u016f, kte\u0159\u00ed dok\u00e1zali v dob\u011b sv\u00e9ho do\u010dasn\u00e9ho vdovstv\u00ed zni\u010dit v\u0161echno, co doposud zbudovali. Od rodiny, p\u0159es pr\u00e1ci i finance. (smilstvo, hazard, fl\u00e1my s kolegy v pr\u00e1ci a n\u011bkdy v\u0161echno dohromady) N\u011bkdy se to jejich \u017eeny dozv\u011bd\u011bly, n\u011bkdy se jim to poda\u0159ilo utajit.<br \/>\nProto jsem za\u010dal nad touto v\u011bc\u00ed p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161let. Nejde zde jen o z\u00e1lety apod., ale o le\u017e. Uvedu p\u0159\u00edklad: Kdy\u017e jsem s\u00e1m a nemus\u00edm nikam chodit, nehol\u00edm se. Kdy\u017e jsem se St\u00e1\u0148ou sna\u017e\u00edm se b\u00fdt oholen\u00fd. Ov\u0161em\u00a0St\u00e1\u0148a v\u00ed, \u017ee bych nejrad\u011bji nosil vousy. Kdy\u017e jsem tedy s\u00e1m, nehol\u00edm se, ale nen\u00ed to le\u017e. St\u00e1\u0148a v\u00ed, \u017ee se hol\u00edm jen kv\u016fli ni.\u00a0N\u011bco jin\u00e9ho je, kdy\u017e dr\u017e\u00edm se \u017eenou zdravou v\u00fd\u017eivu a \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m jak je to dobr\u00e9, ale vlastn\u011b pro\u010d to \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m, proto\u017ee\u00a0kdy\u017e jsem s\u00e1m, pak se\u017eeru cel\u00e9ho vep\u0159e a p\u0159ed n\u00e1vratem \u017eeny rychle ukl\u00edz\u00edm v\u0161echny kosti, s\u00e1\u010dky od masa nebo plechovky od vep\u0159ov\u00fdch konzerv. Nic to vlastn\u011b nen\u00ed, ale je to le\u017e, kter\u00e1 vych\u00e1z\u00ed z \u010deho? Ze strachu \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee mi zdrav\u00e1 v\u00fd\u017eiva nechutn\u00e1.\u00a0Kdy\u017e se \u010dlov\u011bk stane slam\u011bn\u00fdm \u00a0vdovcem nebo vdovou, uk\u00e1\u017ee se pravdivost \u010dlov\u011bka. Jestli si na n\u011bco hraje, jestli d\u011blal v\u011bci jen ze strachu, ale ve skute\u010dnosti mu chutn\u00e1 jin\u00fd \u017eivot. Nebo\u00a0z\u016fstane\u00a0stejn\u00fd, opravdov\u00fd.<br \/>\nTato dvojakost st\u00e1la Anani\u00e1\u0161e a Zefiru \u017eivot. (Slutky 5) Lhali Duchu svat\u00e9mu. Petr tady vlastn\u011b Anani\u00e1\u0161i \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, \u017ee nemusel prod\u00e1vat sv\u00e1 pole. Kdy\u017e ho v\u0161ak prodal, nemusel c\u00edrkvi odevzd\u00e1vat pen\u00edze, nebo se mohl rozhodnout jen pro \u010d\u00e1st, nebo v\u016fbec nic. Bylo to jeho a on si s t\u00edm mohl d\u011blat to, co uznal za vhodn\u00e9. Anani\u00e1\u0161 v\u0161ak p\u0159edst\u00edral, \u017ee d\u00e1v\u00e1 v\u0161e, i kdy\u017e si polovinu schoval. Pro\u010d?\u00a0Tato le\u017e ho a jeho \u017eenu st\u00e1la \u017eivot. (P\u0159em\u00fd\u0161lej pro\u010d lhal a\u00a0porovnej to se sv\u00fdm \u017eivotem)\u00a0Pokud jsem jin\u00fd, kdy\u017e jsem s\u00e1m bez \u017eeny\/mu\u017ee a sna\u017e\u00edm se to zatajit, je to podobn\u00e1 le\u017e. \u010casto si to ani neuv\u011bdomujeme, proto\u017ee si mysl\u00edme , \u017ee jde o mal\u00e9 v\u011bci. Mo\u017en\u00e1 se stav\u00edm jin\u00fd (l\u017eu) v\u016f\u010di partnerovi, n\u011bkomu v c\u00edrkvi, dal\u0161\u00edm, ale Duch svat\u00fd to v\u00ed, nebo si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee ne? Pak l\u017eu tak\u00e9 jemu. Nejsem\u00a0jen slam\u011bn\u00fdm vdovcem ke vztahu k vlastn\u00ed \u017een\u011b, ale chci j\u00edm b\u00fdt i\u00a0ke\u00a0vztahu k Duchu svat\u00e9mu.<br \/>\nP\u00ed\u0161i to, abychom si uv\u011bdomili tyto v\u011bci a mohli s t\u00edm jednat. V\u00edm, \u017ee mnoho z n\u00e1s s t\u00edm m\u00e1 probl\u00e9m.<br \/>\nDavid to znal.\u00a0V\u011bd\u011bl, \u017ee je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 zn\u00e1t o sob\u011b pravdu, ale tak\u00e9, \u017ee ani sami sebe nezn\u00e1me. V\u011bd\u011bl v\u0161ak,\u00a0kam m\u00e1 s t\u00edmto probl\u00e9mem j\u00edt.<br \/>\nPt\u00e1 se: \u00a0<em><strong>&#8222;Kdo ale\u00a0rozpozn\u00e1 sv\u00e9 vlastn\u00ed<\/strong><\/em><strong> poblouzn\u011bn\u00ed?&#8220;<\/strong>\u00a0a pak se d\u00e1l obrac\u00ed k Hospodinu\u00a0&#8222;<em><strong>Od skryt\u00fdch h\u0159\u00edch\u016f mne o\u010disti! Zbav sv\u00e9ho slu\u017eebn\u00edka i t\u011bch\u00a0\u00famysln\u00fdch, nikdy a\u0165 nade mnou nepanuj\u00ed! Pak budu bez\u00fahonn\u00fd a nevinn\u00fd, sv\u00e9 velik\u00e9 viny zbaven\u00fd.<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>Slova v m\u00fdch \u00fastech, v m\u00e9m srdci my\u0161len\u00ed k\u00e9\u017e se ti, Hospodine, zal\u00edb\u00ed- sk\u00e1lo m\u00e1, m\u016fj Vykupiteli. (\u00a0\u017dalm 19.)<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>P\u0159ed t\u00fddnem jsem odj\u00ed\u017ed\u011bl z Hav\u00ed\u0159ova dom\u016f do Pezinku. V Hav\u00ed\u0159ov\u011b jsem na t\u00fdden zanechal St\u00e1\u0148u. Ve chv\u00edli, kdy jsem odch\u00e1zel, n\u011bkdo prohodil, \u017ee jsem te\u010f slam\u011bn\u00fd vdovec. Pojem slam\u011bn\u00e9ho vdovce m\u00e1m ( a asi nejen j\u00e1) spojen\u00fd s Milo\u0161em Kopeck\u00fdm, kter\u00fd n\u011bkolikr\u00e1t takovou\u00a0roli hr\u00e1l.\u00a0 Slam\u011bn\u00fd vdovec v jeho pojet\u00ed byl p\u011bkn\u011b velk\u00fd z\u00e1letn\u00edk a &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.josefknoflicek.cz\/?p=1148\" class=\"more-link\">Pokra\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed textu <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Zamy\u0161len\u00ed na ka\u017ed\u00fd den. 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